The problem or complaint going unresolved
Change being avoided
Maintenance of the status quo, even if its negative
Others turning off to your complaints and pleas for help
No gains in life C stagnation
Over-dependence on others to take care of you
Unhappiness concerning your current status in life
Depression over your problems
Feelings of being stuck C immobilized
A chronic "yes, Y but" attitude
Lack of creativity in problem solving
The problems becoming exacerbated
Your rights and the rights of others being ignored
Experiencing "burnout" in facing your problems
Loss of support from others who have been assisting you in working on your problems.
Loss of physical health
Loss of emotional health
Being isolated and ignored by others as you wallow in self-pity
Your blaming others for not helping to solve your problems
Your self-destructive, self medicating, or self-defeating behavior.
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